Wifecraft
About

What Wifecraft is.

A library shelf, an indexed binder, a writing desk — an editorial publication signal, not a portrait. Line drawing or etching, wine on cream. No figures, no faces.
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We're a couple in Berlin in a loving cuckold relationship — with everything that surrounds it: hotwifing, FLR, chastity, pegging. Wifecraft is what happened when we noticed nobody was writing the publication we wanted to read.

The voice is direct and kinky-literate. We use the words — cuckold, hotwife, bull, chastity, FLR, pegging — by their names. We don't moralise. We don't sell fantasy. We assume the reader is an adult and we write for them that way. We are also — there is no point pretending otherwise — quietly turned on by some of this. So is the reader. We write accordingly.

What this is

  • A research desk. Long-form pieces, twice a month or so, written from the inside of an asymmetrical marriage. We've spent the last year reading the practitioner forums seriously — long-running threads on r/CuckoldPsychology, r/HotWifeLifestyle, the OurHotWives and WifeWantsToPlay community boards, EvolvingYourMan, several practitioner blogs. We've cross-referenced what we read against what we live. The pieces are the result.
  • A couples assessment. The Gap Game — a ten-minute questionnaire each partner fills out separately. It surfaces what each of you is missing about the other.
  • Ask us anything. A free question line at /ask, indexed against the same forums we've been reading. Five questions a day, cited where we can cite.
  • Gear we'd actually recommend. A small shelf — chastity, pegging, lingerie, home — that's been thinned to what we'd give a friend. Affiliate-funded, marked at the link.

What this is not

  • Not therapy. We don't pretend to be clinicians. If a question is clinical, please find one.
  • Not a community. No forum, no DMs, no group chat — we'd point you to the existing communities for that, and we cite them where we lean on them.
  • Not pornography. We write directly because adults are reading. We don't publish photographic or video sex material; the eroticism rides on top of editorial writing.
  • Not anonymous, exactly, but not personally exposed either. We write in the first-person plural. We don't put our faces or our names on this. The marriage is the subject, not us.

How we read

The bulk of this publication sits on top of what we've read in r/CuckoldPsychology and r/HotWifeLifestyle and adjacent subreddits, the OurHotWives.org and WifeWantsToPlay forums, the Chastity Mansion boards, EvolvingYourMan, and several long-running practitioner blogs. We don't republish anyone's posts. We paraphrase patterns, we cite communities, and where we lean on a thread we say so.

The /ask tool runs on top of that same reading. It pulls relevant threads, writes you an answer, and shows you the citations — so you can go read the originals if you want the raw voice.

Money, eventually

Most of the site is free. The pieces are free. The Gap Game is free. /ask is free, rate-limited at five questions per browser per day.

A small set of paid guides — for configurations the existing genre doesn't address well — will be the first paid surface, alongside disclosed sponsor placements (one per article, marked). Affiliate links are marked at the link. We don't pretend opinions are research, and we don't take placements that change what a piece would otherwise say.

Operations

Wifecraft is operated from Berlin by the two of us. Legal contact is on the Impressum page; data handling is on the privacy page; the sponsors brief is on /sponsors.

Get in touch

[email protected]. We read everything. We won't reply to all of it, and we'd rather you didn't send your personal dynamics for diagnosis. But corrections, sharp comments, story leads, sponsor enquiries, and offers to write for us — those are all welcome.