Gear · Pegging

Pegging, the starter stack.

Harnesses, dildos, lube, and the single piece of preparation most couples skip and regret.

In preparation

The first time pegging goes badly is almost always equipment-not-body. The wrong harness, a starter dildo that's actually too aggressive, the lube that wasn't right for silicone.

We'll publish a starter stack — three configurations from cautious to confident — with what to buy, what to skip, and the conversation you should have with each other before you order anything. Affiliate links where they're honest.

When the starter stack ships.

One email. We won't send a separate one for every product.